For many years, there is a fake that has prove to us about take and give correlation . The success will be coming to someone, only if he or she has a true spirit to give somebody else without hoping it replied by somebody else even they don't tie in some relation, like family, friend or co-worker if he or she is working.
Some thinker said if you give something that useful for someone, more over that it's valuable to the person and the person desperately need the thing, you will have something that could clean some negative substances that held in your body. It's like throwing some negative energy outside from your body, or it's like you are asking your body to produce a new substances to replace the old blood after you donate it. In other word, we can say that reproduction of blood is happening every time the blood is donated. The advantage of this action is of course we could get new blood that more fresh than the donated one.
Most of us are not realize one important truth that the universe often reply to us the thing that we have done to someone else, directly or indirectly. It's often like something that happen suddenly to us. We should believe that the God, will pay our goodness someday with abundance of healthiness, happiness, prosperity, and much more. There is nothing that pull outside from you without any replacement to you. It should become something that called 'balance rule'. The balance rule is simply defined as the condition that you have both positivity and negativity, or chinese belief 'yin and yang'. Anything come out from your effort, will be returned to you as result. Of course the best effort will be replied with best result. Contrary, poor effort will give you back a poor result. Another example is good student that eager to study hard, will get the good score for their exams. For you who are working, hard work will get a good compensation and career promotion also.
No matter what the situation you involved, give your best effort for it, then the universe will pay you back on someday. Don't always look at the compensation that you must get for everything you have done until now. It's not a good condition if we always need a pay back for it. If you do it, it's not good if we aim to build relationship with someone else. It often put our self into the situation that make somebody avoid us for asking our help in the future, and of course it doesn't make the person help us if we need help someday. Even more we can loose friendship with them.
